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Dear Brothers and Sisters in Jesus Christ,

 

In late August this year, you may recall that the World Meeting of Families took place in Ireland in the presence of Pope Francis. The event was a little overshadowed by the revelations of historical child abuse cases in Ireland.  However,  I know, having spoken to some people who took part in the event, that it was an enriching experience. To gather with families from across the world to celebrate family life in its many aspects was clearly a special moment for those who took part.

 

Pope Francis took the opportunity to hear stories of families from around the world and to speak about the family.  For a few moments I would like to reflect on three of the aspects of family mentioned by the Holy Father during this time: the family as a school for holiness, the family as a model of forgiveness and the family as a model for a new alliance between the older and the younger generations.

 

The Family – a School for Holiness.

 

Today we celebrate the feast of the Holy Family.  I think we sometimes find holiness difficult to talk about.  We often think of others as holy or called to holiness but never ourselves. Indeed, we feel awkward and embarrassed when others suggest that we might be holy.  But we should not be afraid of holiness.  It is simply striving to be our best selves in our relationship with God and one another.  It is within the family that we learn the ways of holiness midst the ordinary stuff of life. It is in the family that we learn to believe and share our belief, to show acts of kindness, to speak a word of forgiveness.

 

Speaking at the Pro Cathedral in Dublin, Pope Francis said

 

It is in the home that we learn to believe, through the quiet example of parents who love our Lord and trust His word.  There in the home, which we can call “the domestic church” children learn the meaning of fidelity, integrity and sacrifice.

 

 

The Family – a Model of Forgiveness.

 

Our readiness and willingness to forgive is key to the growth of any friendship or relationship but especially within the family. In Croke Park, speaking of this important aspect of family life, Pope Francis remarks:

 

Forgiveness is a special gift from God that heals our brokenness and draws us closer to one another and to him.  Small and simple acts of forgiveness, renewed each day, are the foundation upon which a solid Christian family life is built.

 

When I was in parish ministry, each year I used to work alongside the parents of the children who were being prepared by the parish catechists for first Reconciliation and Eucharist.  I would always take the opportunity to remind them that their children would understand little or nothing about the Sacrament of Reconciliation if they do not see or experience forgiveness and reconciliation in the home. Sometimes we need to speak and hear the obvious!

 

The Family as the model for an Alliance between the Young and Old.

 

The importance of the forging a new alliance between the old and the young is something close to the heart of the Holy Father and he sees the family as leading the way in this. For example, he speaks affectionately of his relationship with his own grandmother, Rosa.  Again, speaking at Croke Park he says

 

A society that does not value grandparents is a society that has no future. A Church that is not mindful of the covenant between generations will end up lacking the thing that really matters, which is love…….our grandparents are a treasury of experience, a treasury of wisdom for the new generation.

 

Indeed they are!  Drawing on their deep reservoir of experience and wisdom, they can show the young what it is to have a spirit of gratitude for gifts received, to reassure the fearful young who are anxious about their future, to show those who are focussed on themselves that there is more joy in giving than receiving and that love is expressed in both words and actions.

 

Having been brought up by my paternal  grandparents, you can imagine that “the covenant between the generations “ is close to my heart, too, and it has given me much to be grateful for in life.

 

Today we ask the prayers of the Holy Family of Nazareth as we continue to try to make our own families schools of holiness, models of forgiveness and reconciliation and true alliances between the young and old.

 

Yours sincerely in Christ the Redeemer.

 

Dear Brothers and Sisters in Jesus Christ,

 

Happy feast day!  Each year, today’s feast of Christ the King marks the end of the Church’s liturgical year and heralds the season of Advent. For many years now, today is also celebrated as National Youth Sunday.

 

As some of you may know, I spent the month of October in Rome along with cardinals, bishops, priests, religious men and women and youth from around the world for a synod/meeting on the theme: Youth, Faith and the Discernment of Vocation. The meeting or synod was two years in the preparation, gathering the voices of young people from around the world during that time including some young voices from the Hallam Diocese.  Finally, a pre-synod youth meeting took place earlier this year and the production of a document that was our “steer” during the course of the meeting.  I felt enormously privileged – if not exhausted at times! – to be part of the synod experience.

 

In particular, there were two highlights for me. Firstly, the presence of the Holy Father throughout the time of the synod.  He was there to welcome us to the St Paul VI centre for each of the plenary sessions of the synod. During the many presentations he listened attentively to what was said. His own words throughout were few but wise.   In all this, and more, he showed himself to be a true pastor.

 

The second highlight for me was to hear the stories from the particular Churches around the world and, especially, some truly inspirational stories of the personal love for Christ and commitment to the life of the church of some of the young in the different Churches. . There were many such stories of the young witnessing to Christ and the giving of their lives: Sister Lita Castillo, a Dominican Sister of the Annunciation, aged 22, who died cruelly at the hands of intruders, Anwar Samaan aged 21 and his younger brother, Misho 17, both Salesian animators with a passion for the Salesian charism, who died in Syria, in 2015, after missiles hit their house and killed them and their mother.  Or, Safia Al Abbia, a 24 year old Iraqi Coptic Christian present at the synod who told us that one Sunday leaving Mass he said goodbye to his friends and that he would see them the following week.  He never did.  They were killed by a car bomb planted outside the church.

 

As our journey together unfolded it slowly became clear to us that a model for understanding the Church’s mission towards our youth is the story of Jesus and the two disciples on the road to Emmaus. You will recall that Jesus walks with the two disciples who had not understood the meaning of his story and are moving away from Jerusalem and the community.  Jesus appears to them and seems happy to walk in their company even though they are walking away from their community.  He asks them questions and listens to their version of recent events to help them recognise what they are experiencing.  Then, with love, He announces the Word to them leading them to interpret in the light of the Scriptures the things that have happened to them in recent days.  He takes up their invitation to stay with them.  In listening to Him their hearts burn with love, their minds are opened and they recognise Him in the breaking of bread. The disciples then choose themselves to continue their journey back to the community in Jerusalem and share their experience of their encounter with the risen Christ.

 

Our journey over the three and half weeks of the Synod reflected the journey of Jesus and the two disciples on the road to Emmaus. “Jesus himself came up and walked by their side”. (LK 24:15).  The first part of our journey was to recognise and note the context in which young people around the world live out their lives, how they live their call to a life of faith and to be aware of their strengths and challenges.  “And their eyes were opened.” (LK 24:31).  The second part of our journey was to interpret the information received from the Churches and come to some understanding of it in the light of the scriptures. “They set out at that instant and returned to Jerusalem”. (LK 24:33).  On the final part of our journey, we gathered some of the choices to be made and the actions to be taken on return to our own particular Church to help us fulfil our mission to the young: that they will know themselves to be loved, valued and listened to.

 

Here in the Diocese of Hallam we have, in a way, anticipated what the synod is asking of us.  Earlier in the year, the Trustees commissioned a review of the provision of Youth Ministry for 11-18 year olds in the Diocese to help us plan for the future.  I await the findings due soon.  Also, it is hoped that the builders will begin work on the new MissionHub early next month.

 

With these two new projects, we are putting out into the deep in our commitment to the Youth and Young Adults of the Diocese.   We pray that they will bring in a great haul for the Lord!